November 2006


Uncategorized26 Nov 2006 10:52 pm

I’m feeling this way lately. Attacked, beseiged, put upon by circumstances. I’m sure this is a result of great spiritual growth, but it feels like I can’t do anything right. I’m:

  • jumping to conclusions and getting angry, particularly in a precarious important relationship that God wants me to fix
  • impatient with both my kids (age 3 and 1)
  • snapping and fighting a lot with hubby
  • cursing out drivers
  • pitying myself
  • complaining A LOT
  • falling off the wagon of repentance

Just to name a few.  OK, that’s most of it.  Went out and got drunk and saw a comedy that was raunchy last night and it didn’t feel right – it was a date with hubby.  That part was awesome but I just felt icky afterwards.

What do we do when we are failing, failing, failing?  Do we repetitively ask forgiveness?  I do, but you wonder if it’s gotten cheap or irritating to God.  Does He think, you can do better, so just DO it already.

I’ve come to this conclusion: Spending the year without a group Bible study was a bad idea.  Not reaching out for a prayer partner or mentor was a bad idea.  Not being more actively generous with my time was a bad idea.  These are true defenses against the darkness and I need to rectify them.

Ok, I’ll do better tomorrow with God’s help.

Uncategorized22 Nov 2006 10:28 pm

Be thankful, that’s all.

I can tell you some things you can be thankful for right now:

1. That you’re alive. OK, maybe you’re not grateful for that for good reasons, but should be. Alive means you still have a purpose, and the universe -and God – still need you.

2. That you have access to a computer. Lots of people in lots of places DON’T.

3. That you have enough leisure time to read a blog, and

4. that now you are devoting that time to a blog about finding God. Well done!

5. That you can read. Illiteracy is an awful, global problem. We take reading for granted, but actually it’s a great skill, the basis of SO many other things that you can do, like learning.

Five things to be grateful for right there. You may think I’m being glib, but I’m not. I’ve learned through trial and error that there are two ways to go through life: grumbling or grateful.

Grumbling for Results??
Grumbling gets you no where. Grumbling distracts us from seeing the beauty and purpose in our lives because we get caught up in the sound of our own narcisstic voice, and that leads to more grumbling, and nothing EVER seems to happen. We start to adopt a victim mentality (”why me?”) and once THAT happens, we are in trouble, enter the downward spiral. More bad stuff starts to happen, and we think that proves that God or the universe or the Force or whatever is out to get us. What we don’t see is that our grumbling has blinded us to the good things. Life nearly always happens in balance. You get sick, you go on vacation. You are robbed, you get a bonus. The problem is the balance part doesn’t happen day to day. It happens more slowly, over months or years. Bad stuff happens, good stuff happens, but your pride and arrogance blind you to The Bigger Picture.

Grateful and Happy
Want results? Then start to thank God. For EVERYTHING. I did a little experiment on my other blog, let’s see if I get comments: find 5 things in your life that you don’t want and see if you can be grateful for them. You may NOT get what you want.

You’ll get something even better.
God and his Spirit come to give you: peace. happiness. comfort.
true joy: joy of the soul.

I tried and boy, was I a skeptic on this. I went, I sought, I suffered, but I suffer no more. Do your worst, I’m good, and thankful for every single thing that comes my way… thank you God for that!

Remember:

Phi 4:6  Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.  

Uncategorized13 Nov 2006 10:47 pm

Well, I’ve done this wild thing in my heart. I’ve become a real Christian.

You’re probably laughing and wondering why this is such a wild thing.

Remedial Christianity
It’s been so very hard for me. You must understand, I still believe that God Himself led me onto The Path of Perfection. I was happy there, and I blew it, by not attending class, and that door eventually closed (after 3 times of my dropping it).

My reaction to this was terror, fear, anger, pleading, deals – just like some of the 5 stages of grief – and similiarly, I came to accept it. I decided to go BACK to Christianity. Please understand at the time because of my great Hubris, I really did think of this as a step BACKward. I used to internally call it God’s need to send me to remedial spirituality. And even in sermons, I could see the truth of the Path being proven and used to think, Good one, God, you can still preach to me here, even though I’m light years ahead of these folks.
Really, my arrogance knows no bounds.

Tolerating Conservatism: Gulp
Then I moved to PA, and God – using signs that could have been divine post it notes on my desk – led me to a conservative, Wesleyan church. Did I mention, CONSERVATIVE? A liberal New Yorker like me, well, I went kicking and screaming.

My church is blessed with two amazing pastors. They preach and you can HONESTLY hear the voice of God. I found myself more and more sucked in. The urge to kick and scream started to die.

Because I was so lonely in my new area, I attended Bible study. To my shock, I grew and grew. I learned to DO all the things that I had on the Path and couldn’t. I learned God’s Will. I learned humility. I learned charity. (OH I’m lightyears away from where I need to be but I’m learning.) I attended these seminars they had, after the pastor recommended them. I discussed my beliefs with him and he lent me one of John Wesley’s books on Christian perfection. (It turned out to be right up my alley. Thanks, Lenny.)

I’ve been wondering what God’s plan was, especially last December when God encouraged me to take communion and I did, only to feel God’s joy after doing so. I could literally feel the Lord get happy. Mind you, I didn’t know until recently that taking communion if you are not a true believer is blasphemous, but I guess God was working with me.

Grace? What’s That?
Things were coming to a head for me personally. God has been giving me this LONG, LONG lesson about relying on Him, as I have no strength, energy or health in my life right now. And though I’m required to be Superwoman most days, I can barely manage Average Woman. I began to learn a new lesson: GRACE.

After attending the 3rd seminar in September on spiritual gifts, I realized I needed to DO something. I was stymied, though, because my main Christian gift (shockingly) was Knowledge. How could that be, when I subscribe to a non-Christian faith and, really, who is this Jesus fellow anyway?

As usual, I made my way through it with logic, and amazingly LOGIC led me to faith in Christ. You see, you could say that after 2 years of church, Bible studies and courses, reading the Bible in a year, befriending Christians and attempting to be active in the church, I would *naturally* become a Christian.

Except that, in very clear terms, a) God led me here, b) God surrounded me with Christians everywhere ELSE in my life, not just church, and c) God keeps telling me I’m on track.

Uh, Letting Go and Letting God?
And in my quest for perfection, I’ve found that at this point in my life I just CAN’T. I try and try, and am maybe one iota of a better person than I was a few months ago, but it’s so hard. Like Paul says, I do what I hate. And it gets harder, just like the Path says, as there are forces out there that don’t want you to make it, to rejoin God. That’s ok, though, because there is forgiveness. I still believe it requires restitution. I still believe in successive lives, and a heaven that’s way better than Christians envision (rejoining the Source: God). But I absolutely CAN’T do it on my own. Perhaps that was my misinterpretation of the Path. I’m always thinking I’m strong enough to go it alone, and accepting help is the hardest thing in the world for me.

So there, I leaped, I jumped, I went with it. The beauty is, I feel this nice, pure, lovely feeling inside these last few days since I have accepted Christ, and it’s something I haven’t felt since childhood. That feels like confirmation to me. I’ve got doctrine issues, and I’m still a liberal. I’m not at all for this whole “literal Bible” thing, although I believe it to be divinely inspired, and I don’t get what’s so ungodly about evolution. I don’t see why God couldn’t have made gay people and I think Christians who take the Bible literally need to do a whole lot better at explaining the contradictions. (I have explanations, but I could be wrong.) And I LOVE Dr. Scott Peck and the “The Road Less Travelled”…now that book’s a bit of truth.

But I’m hanging in there. I guess I’ll see what the afterlife holds. I trust God, and I trust God too that He will save more people than we can imagine or fathom. The beauty of the Path is that everyone gets saved eventually, even if it’s after eternity. (Don’t ask me to explain, I’m dodgy on the fine points.) God is good, is all I know, and I’m with Him til the bitter end.